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Rewrite your internal self talk

Rewrite your internal self talk

A few years ago, I had the privilege of taking part in a year long leadership development program held in California. I met the most incredible humans from around the world. Many are now life long friends and colleagues. A group of us still meet virtually every two weeks to practice our leadership skills, hold...
The Perfectly Hidden Wound

The Perfectly Hidden Wound

I never knew this until recently, but I am a recovering perfectionist. My aim in this newsletter is to share my personal story and shed some light on a growing epidemic: Perfectionism. I honestly thought that my innate need to function at an exhaustingly high level was just normal. The obsessive need to – practice…

What is unhealthy Perfectionism?

What is unhealthy Perfectionism?

What's the difference between unhealthy perfectionism and the healthy pursuit of excellence? I was recently a keynote speaker at a large women’s conference where I presented Perfect Imperfection. Part of my talk included the idea of giving ourselves a bit of slack when it comes to the rigid standards perfectionists place on themselves when wanting...
Change Champ Blog

Change Champ Blog

Change Champ Blog Ta-Daaaaa! I remember the days (many moons ago) of being a competitive figure skater, practicing my spins and jumps over and over and over again. One year, as I was practicing for a regional competition and a challenging new routine, I spent way more time on my butt than on my feet....

Are you a perfectionist?

Are you a Perfectionist? What are the signs? How do I know if I'm a perfectionist? I was recently asked by some folks, “How do I know if I’m a perfectionist?” and, “How can I spot a perfectionist?” Being a recovering perfectionist myself – and researching this topic for decades – the short answer is:...